Parenting and stuff

So, I have been thinking about a lot of things. Mainly how to be a better mother and how to best teach my children. In by no means a parenting expert. In fact as I'm typing this my daughter is screaming at her dad because he's trying to get her to bed, because I came home and yelled at him for letting them stay up so late. (Told you I'm not great at this.) Any ways,  he can handle it for one night this week.      So, we are moving soon, I have wanted this for a while, but now that is coming I feel a deep sense of dread. After this month I won't have a job, neither one of us have one lined up in Logan. See I'm what some call a type A personality. And moving with out a stable income to me is terrifying.
There are lots I'd things on my mind right now. I want to able to stay home more with my children. I know I don't do bows or baking, or sewing, but I love my children (even when they drive me crazy). I want to be with them more. I want to teach Sarah to write her name, and help milo with talking. I worry about our finances (again type A). Where do type Moms fit in? Is there room for us at home too, or are we doomed to work all our lives. Are there other moms out there that don't like the "mom stuff" but like being moms?